For a person who had always been very passionate about British culture, I was surprisingly unprepared for the experience of dating a Brit.
Sure, I knew my pasty from my ploughman’s and had enough pop culture facts to win even the most difficult pub quiz, but as it turned out, a successful intercultural relationship required more than this type of understanding about Britain.
He went out on a few dates with some American women he met online, and got on well with one of them. Of course she was just wanting to formally upgrade their relationship from “dating” to “exclusively dating”. He’d never been in a situation where these things were explicitly stated like this before.
They went out maybe a dozen times over a month or two and things were going well, when she dropped the bombshell…“I think maybe it’s time we take this relationship to the next level, what do you think? In general, it’s less structured, less formal here in the UK.
I think Americans have a tendency to view the British as extended family members who merely speak in a different accent, underestimating how large the cultural gap between our two societies really is.
As an anglophile, I seem to have been subconsciously drawn to British men like a moth to the flames, and those experiences have taught me a lot about British culture and myself.
Looking back on those relationships, things would have gone a lot smoother if I had been aware of certain cultural differences.
In a situation where I would seek help or sympathy, they usually preferred to go on with their lives as normally as possible and trust it would get better on its own." The man may even go down on one knee before proposing.If the proposal is accepted, the couple become engaged.During this period, a couple is said to be affianced, engaged to be married, or simply engaged.A man who is engaged to be married is called his partner's .