Do be understanding I can get kind of defensive when dating older guys, worried that some might see me as another notch on the bedpost, or fresh meat to pass the time until someone more serious comes along.
She may be younger, but her feelings are just as genuine as yours. Do establish boundaries In some rather obvious ways you’re at different stages of life, so if you're just enjoying a fling make sure she isn't shopping for wedding dresses.
If you see a beautiful, classy older woman, coming up to her while drinking a Coors light (with some spilled on your shirt) in your jeans, t-shirt and baseball hat, half-slurring a line that she’s heard dozens of times, is really not going to work for you. Be genteel, be confident (look her in the eyes, shoulders and back straight), be generous and be interested in HER, not just the fact that she’s a cougar.
Topics of conversation will be a little less frivolous, she’ll want to know you’re her equal on at least some fronts.
Use the classic dating strategies: introductions through friends, blind dates, meeting through activities (work, recreation, religious, etc.), and plain old serendipity. Through them, you'll probably meet women who also enjoy them, women who might become friends — and eventually, maybe more. So the odds are in men's favor — and women know it. Try to correct misinformation, or at least be prepared to prove that you're not the escaped serial killer who shares your name.
Photos increase men's response rate 40 percent — for women, photos triple it! Beyond saying, "You're really cute and you live near me," you can add that like the woman you're contacting, you also play tennis and enjoy jazz.
They seem interested, but after a few e-mails, they disappear.
If you meet a woman in her twenties and want to go for it, go for it.En español │After 20 years, you're single again and, heaven help you, on the brink of dating. Approach that work colleague you always thought was kinda cute? And once you do score a date, what should you expect in terms of s-e-x? , for instance), a young teacher, a friend’s mom or that really hot divorced chick that always comes into the pizza place, older women hold a special place in our hearts and……other places. With people your own age, you are around them constantly, you’re at the same life points and generally have the same interests and worldview.So how does one actually go about dating an older woman?