Men are attracted to women who have a sense of inner confidence and are generally, secure in themselves.If you show signs of jealousy (such as freaking out if he wants a boys' night out), men pick up on this incredibly quickly so it's wise to look at why that is and deal with any jealousy issues before you get into something too serious. At my worst, I’m searching for a way out—picking apart my relationship for its flaws and the reasons it won’t work in order to prevent inevitability. I’ve tried to loosen the grip this fear has on me, but I know I need someone who understands that a relationship with me will be work. Search your heart, talk to family, and seek the wisdom of friends whose opinions you respect and trust. You see, we had been fighting—as couples do—and I didn’t want to tell her the truth. So long ago, I made the choice to keep my feet firmly planted on dry land. But my family dynamic makes it difficult for me to commit. It’s not because I’m trying to be difficult, I’m just afraid. You chose to begin a relationship with this person for a reason. What is it about the man you’re in love with or beginning to fall for? A year is ample time for someone to “know.” If he claims to have no idea, you at least should.We tend to believe that the more we care, the more we can get hurt. The ways we were hurt in previous relationships, starting from our childhood, have a strong influence on how we perceive the people we get close to as well as how we act in our romantic relationships.Old, negative dynamics may make us wary of opening ourselves up to someone new. Many of us struggle with underlying feelings of being unlovable.
The “I don’t need you or want you” mentality isolates you from your own feelings and those of others. The crux of it is that there is an inability to love – both to feel it and to give it.Men are attracted to women who have an active social life.Having friends indicates that you have people in your life who want to spend time with you. It also shows that friends are important to you and that the man isn't the centre of your world.This coach is shaped from painful childhood experiences and critical attitudes we were exposed to early in life as well as feelings our parents had about themselves.While these attitudes can be hurtful, over time, they have become engrained in us.